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What is Recovery?

An essay on the subject of “What is Recovery” raises, for me, the question of what is Addiction. Since everyone of us has an idea, our own idea, of what Addiction is, we'll also have our own answer to “What is Recovery?”

Since we don’t have agreement in our field on what Addiction is, I doubt that we can come up with an easy agreement on what recovery is. I could just tell you my definition of both but my goal is not for us to have a debate over which we can come to a resolution. My goal is that we all look at ourselves and how we got to this question. It may be, that after examining ourselves, we may choose to change the question we ask.

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Untangling the Web: Sexual Addiction in the Internet Age
Feature Articles - Sex Addiction
Written by Robert Weiss, LCSW, CAS   
Thursday, 04 October 2007
Once considered fodder for daytime talk shows and grocery line literature, today sexual addiction is increasingly acknowledged by psychotherapists and the general public as a legitimate neuro-psychobiological disorder, with specific assessment criteria and a defined treatment method. The Internet-fueled escalation in compulsive sexual behavior, combined with a growing understanding of how process addictions manifest in the brain, have contributed both socially and clinically to the need for good
sexual addiction assessment and treatment. Primarily driven by the availability of a seemingly endless variety of Internet-based sexual content, sexually addicted clients and their troubled spouses are showing up in increasing numbers at the doorsteps of addiction counselors. These clients are seeking concrete direction, behavioral containment and support. Initially they might engage in therapy in an attempt to resolve a crisis that has arisen directly or indirectly related to some type of sexual acting out. Most often the sex addict’s presenting concerns stem from wives or partners threatening abandonment unless help is sought, though many seek aid for financial, medical, emotional, career and legal difficulties that follow in the wake of this disorder.  

While most healthy adults experience sex as an integrated life-affirming experience, for the sexual addict, sexuality is better described by words such as driven, compulsive, shameful and secretive. Unlike adults who engage in sex as a normal, healthy behavior, these isolated people repetitively pursue various forms of intense sexual arousal to cope with and ward off unmanageable emotional states. Sex addicts attempt to meet their disavowed emotional dependency needs through fantasy and sex, behaviors that never push them into risking the vulnerability required for genuine intimacy. For them, sexual objectification, fantasy, ritual and the sexual act itself (either solo or with a partner) are disintegrated from the whole person, leading to secretive double lives. While the disorder is not defined by any specific sexual act, fetish or orientation, sexual addiction, as in gambling addition or eating disorders, is organized around the feelings, activities and consequences surrounding sexual behavior.



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Mariana Ortiz.   |65.65.147.xxx |2007-11-15 16:19:34
I will like to have information about healthy and normal Sex. because I lost my
husband because lock of sex desire. Could you please give me a tips so I try to
get back my husband?
tip   |70.156.95.xxx |2008-04-07 22:13:14
Welll for starters marriage is for better or for worst. So I would suggest
moving on and exploring other options, but be safe.Maybe you two just never had
that chemistry try someone new that will understand you.
shawn   |69.138.0.xxx |2008-05-23 12:00:46
Is there a highly structured,acountable S.A. counselor available in the Va,Md,
DC, area? My husband is in advanced stages and it is is getting ugly. Thank you
for your time, Shawn
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